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Sunday, May 8, 2011

My "Alter Ego"...

WARNING: This will be, by far, the longest blog entry I've ever if the topic of my "alter ego" doesn't interest you, by all means don't continue! You've been forewarned. :-)

As an online adult persona, I get some rather interesting email. Some overly zealous fans seem to think that I have no other life than "sex, sex, sex" and/or that this my adult work is my full-time "career". That's harmless wishful thinking on their part, but harmless wishful thinking is still wishful thinking. On the opposite end of the spectrum are the "haters"...a hyper-vocal super-minority of misogynist freaks who spend huge amounts of their personal time online stalking and harassing adult performers. Some of these clowns have put forth the most utterly ludicrous charge I've ever heard…that I am leading a "double life".

Yes, you read that right. Apparently, because I actually have other interests besides sex and because I don't tell everyone I meet about my sexuality (because, hey, everybody tells everyone they know all about their personal sex life, right?), I'm leading a "double life"...but these dweebs, whose idea of a productive time is to send multiple profanity-filled "threatening" emails, one after another, usually in the wee hours of the morning (an especially popular time stamp for their emails is between 1:00 AM to 4:00 AM, when their mommies, fellow 40-year-old virgin roommates or numb and embittered wives are sound asleep) implying that they are NOT leading a double life because, as one might imagine, they openly tell their wives and mothers and kids and coworkers and friends and neighbors that they regularly spend 2-3 hours a night or more harassing "web girls".

Don't even try to "think" about that. Just follow your natural instinct to laugh out loud, as Steve and I do.

The simple fact is that the lifestyle Steve and I lead together and share online is just one of many aspects that make me "me", and that I spend little time on it in comparison to the time I spend on other aspects of my life...just as even my most ardent fans do not spend the entirety of their lives, 24/7, cruising adult web sites or watching adult videos at home because they have jobs or professions, family and friends, hobbies and other interests. Even the misogynist freaks who like to send harassing e-mails to adult web site owners simply MUST have some other thing that occupies their time, whether by choice or by force. This can really come as no surprise to anyone taking even a brief a moment to really think about the simply reeks of common sense.

Besides our primary business, which Steve and I co-own/co-operate and which has nothing to do with the adult entertainment industry in any way (and the nature of which we only share with fans we've actually met in person and like), one of the many things that occupies a good deal of my time is professional modeling. This is something I've dabbled with on and off since high school but which I never took seriously until finding the time to do so properly in late 2007. Ever since then it's been an ongoing thing and takes up quite a bit of my time.

So, then…does modeling "define" me? No. Is it a "career" or a "job"? No, it's not…it's merely a serious hobby which I thoroughly enjoy. Actually, that's not saying quite enough…I love it! The fact that I get paid for a good deal of it means only that I am lucky. After all, to make money doing something that one truly enjoys and which never seems like "work" is a rare thing for most folks.

Another thing that occupies a huge part of my time - and which most closely defines me as a person - is health & fitness…and this interest, like modeling, goes all the way back to high school. Since I tend to get a lot of questions about this subject from fans via email, I'm going to take time and give the "big picture" details of that interest today.

In the late 90's, several years after having our last child and getting settled into family life, Steve and I started going back to the gym after some years away to get back into shape. Although we'd both been very active in our youth and Steve, in particular, was always in well-above-average shape, like most parents we let ourselves go a bit as we focused on family and work. Then one day we realized we missed being in what we considered to be top we started doing the "Body-For-Life" program and made rapid, dramatic changes.

A few years after that, Steve decided to run a full marathon (26.2 miles) to celebrate his 40th birthday. I never thought of myself as a runner and thought he was a nut case running that far, that fast! But guess what? He loved it and got hooked on the sport...and seeing him get so into it got me interested in trying one myself. So the very next year I ended up training together with him and ran my own first marathon, with Steve running side-by-side with me, at my pace, every step of the way. The memory of the feeling I had when crossing that finish line with my true love and soul mate holding my hand is something that still brings me to tears of happiness. It was such a huge accomplishment and milestone in my life. Since that time I have run road races of various lengths - 5K, 10K, half-marathons and even another full marathon.

Soon after my first marathon, I once again followed Steve's lead as he added road cycling to his hobbies and training. Then came triathlons, which I found that I loved more than running, cycling or swimming alone. I came to love the feeling of accomplishment that endurance sports bring as well as the feeling of empowerment to push my limits. I felt amazing and was in the best shape of my life in my mid and late 30's after having children, when many of my peers were already on a severe downward slope, having basically "quit" any attempt to take care of themselves.

But things didn't stop there. One day in the mid-2000's, my best friend invited me to hit the gym with her for a weight training session, which was something she was deeply into. I hadn't lifted weights since I was in high school, when I worked part-time at a gym, and I didn't realize that I had missed it. Trying it again so many years later while already in great shape from my other sports while sharing the experience with a close friend was awesome! I kept working out with her, quickly got hooked, and my body started changing rapidly. Soon my friend suggested that I try a local bikini contest with her...and that's when I first got the "show bug". I did several bikini contests in a row and it was a real rush to go out there as a mom in my late 30's and compete against girls who were often as young as 18 and still win or place in the top three, consistently, time after time.

Then, huge life changes and new life challenges hit and I started slowly drifting away away from my lifestyle of total fitness. While I was still very healthy for a woman my age, I wasn't happy with the way I started looking. To complicate matters further, when I started doing pro adult video work, I fell into a strange sort of trap in which the producers and directors kept telling me I was "too fit" for pro video and that I needed to look "softer"…so I quit working out altogether, stopped eating as clean as I used to eat and started enjoying my only real vice, red wine, a bit more. I soon started gaining weight...and the bigger my butt got, the more compliments I got from the directors and producers. They loved it, and some of my fans loved it…but I HATED it!

It basically came down to this...did I want to continue to make all that extra money from pro video work (at one point in 2009 I was shooting 4-5 scenes a week, consistently, for months on end) and be unhappy with how I looked, or did I want to walk away from all the trappings of so-called "stardom" and all the extra money and make myself happy in my own way?

As usual, Steve was my biggest supporter and encouraged me to back off on the pro work, stop listening to other people who didn't even know me and start focusing on what makes ME feel happy, healthy and sexy. Which, of course, meant cleaning up my diet again, going back to the gym and focusing on our own web site content, which reflects who I am and who we are as a couple MUCH more than any of my pro work did or even could.

In virtually no time I had dropped all the weight and started feeling the "stage bug" again. But rather than do another local bikini contest, I wanted to try pushing things to the next level with a full-fledged regional figure competition. So I found myself a good coach, trained and dieted my butt off (with Steve's full support and the gracious understanding of our kids, because training for figure competitions is practically a job in itself) and, what do you know, I placed high in my very first contest! (2nd Place in Women's Masters Over 40, and 3rd Place in Women's Open, Short Class). It was a great experience, all the way from the months of training to taking the stage, and I loved it. After all, let's face it, I'm obviously a natural, true-born exhibitionist! I love putting on my Swarovski crystal suit & heels and going out on stage before a crowd. I also am motivated by having specific goals, so knowing that I have a show date keeps me focused and on track. I'm always pushing to be my own personal best - marathons, triathlons or figure competitions, whatever - I want to be better than my last race or show.

But despite all that, even this new hobby/sport does not define who I am in full. I'm simply not that one-dimensional in any way. I never have been and never will be.

So, why the alter ego name of Paige McFarland? There are several reasons, and all are based firmly in common sense.

Although I do have a liberal view of sexuality and a very strong appetite for sex and I have put that part of my life online to share with other like-minded people, at the same time I am keenly aware that my personal fantasies and kinks aren't everyone's cup of tea (whose are?) and out of common decency and respect for others I never foist my lifestyle or beliefs anyone else, nor do I expect "everyone" to approve of what I do. That means, of course, not bringing the subject up unless it is broached by the other party in an appropriate time, place and manner. Assuming that those criteria are met, when people ask if I am the lady named Janet Mason who they have seen online or in a DVD, I tell them yes. But I don't flaunt it because I would not want to offend someone who's not into porn. After all, I like people of from all walks of life and respect their differences. Toward that end, I use the name Paige McFarland for modeling and figure shows. Many other ladies use stage names - whether they are models or figure competitors, bodybuilders, etc. - often for different reasons, but primarily because they so choose and it's their prerogative to do so.

One of the almost unbelievably stupid rumors to spread around the Internet, started by those minority of misogynist freaks mentioned earlier, is that I use the new stage name to "hide" the fact that I'm Janet Mason out of "fear of being found out". As is usual with conspiracy theories of any stripe, this is so pathetically off-base that it's truly funny…but I guess that's what one has to expect from guys like this, who for some reason think act as if they have the world by the short hairs when, in point of fact, they are so loosely tethered to reality that it's comical. Add to that the fact that these people actually threaten to "expose" me and "ruin" me and you've got one helluva source of entertainment. (It's ironic that their own sadly mistaken beliefs about "reality" are the very cause of the blind, obsessive and totally impotent rage that they carry in their hearts but, hey, they choose to do this to themselves.)

First I'll address the issue with photographers from the modeling world "finding out" about my adult work and "not wanting to work with me", since this claim one is the most self-evidently stupid of all. Think about it…I do mostly glamour nude and fine art nude modeling. Now is there really someone out there who honestly believes that a photographer who spends his time shooting nude women in an intentionally sensual-to-overtly-sexual manner as his chosen profession is going to be shocked and appalled by the fact that I am a "swinger" and/or that I have done and continue to do adult video and photo, both as an amateur as a professional? Come on…REALLY?

Here's a real shocker…such a photographer does not exist. For one thing, they are men, for God's sake. For another, they are men who specifically not only love female nudity and sexuality, but men who deliberately choose to make their living from it. They are therefore, by definition, not prudes. To say that any photographer who knows that I am Janet Mason (which is 99% of them) "doesn't care at all" would be a lie. Unfortunately for those who want that to work out badly for me, it goes the opposite way...because they DO care, albeit in a good way...either they are already fans or they become fans after finding out.

I know, I know...imagine that! Men who love blatantly sexual women who enjoy posing nude for photography actually enjoy porn, too? Who'd have guessed right?

Next is the world of figure competitions and being "exposed" in that realm - not that quite a few of my fellow competitors as well as many judges and most photographers don't already know, because they do. But I digress.

The fact is that there are all kinds of people in the figure/fitness/bodybuilding world, just as there are in any other sport. White, black, Hispanic, Asian, you name it. Republicans and Democrats of hard-line and moderate and liberal persuasions. Jews, Catholics, Baptists, Muslims, agnostics and atheists. Prudes and sex fiends. Wealthy and not-so-wealthy. (I'll readily admit this is a very expensive sport, so being poor would make it nearly impossible to compete on a serious level.)

If that sounds a lot like the real world, it's because it IS like the real world...that's where the people come from, whether they are competitors, judges, photographers, bloggers, coaches or whatever. They're just people of every stripe imaginable...not exactly hard to swallow. But it must be said that folks with a more liberal streak tend to be the majority of people in the sport as opposed to more conservative types. Is this a surprise? Not if you think about it. After all, this is a sport dedicated to one thing and one thing only: to develop one's body to its fullest potential and then to display that body, skimpily-clad, on a public stage. The competitors are therefore exhibitionists by nature, and the fans are voyeuristic by nature. Not exactly something that appeals to your average prude, is it? Not on Planet Earth, anyway.

That's not to say that there aren't any arch-conservatives in the sport...only that they are a very small minority. For any competitor or judge would who find my lifestyle or webs site "offensive", I'm guessing 2 or 3 would find it appealing, 3 or 4 would care less and darn near all of them already know or will soon find out about the legions of other bodybuilding-related competitors who lead similar alternative lifestyles. And so it goes.

On that topic, it just so happens that Steve and I personally know of several national-level pros and amateurs in the figure, fitness, bikini, physique and bodybuilding world who are swingers and are members of the same "lifestyle" sites that we've been members of for years on end now. Do they walk around telling everyone they meet about this fact, whether in their personal lives or those they meet in the sport? Of course not; they are discreet about it for the same reasons we are or anyone with even a modicum of common sense would be. Steve and I know only because we either personally know these folks and have had discussions with them about the subject, or because we recognize them from their photos on their profiles online, just as many competitors, judges and photographers know that I am Janet Mason for the same reasons via my web site or my pro video work.

We also know a few high-ranking females in the sport - some of whom, like me, are married with children - who are professional dominatrixes or exotic dancers. Do they walk around telling everyone telling every fellow competitor, judge or fan they meet about this fact? Again, of course not. Like me, they are discreet about it because being so is both respectful of others and just plain common sense. As with the swingers in the sport I mentioned above, we know of their "other interests" because of discreet conversations among mutually consenting adults.

There are also quite a few pro and amateur porn performers, male and female, who compete in the exact same kind of shows I do. Most of the use a different name for their competitions, and most of their fans are aware of both personas. This, too, is not exactly earth-shaking news.

Yet there are a few other competitors who go the opposite way and DO flaunt their association with the adult entertainment and/or "swinging lifestyle" world. At least one female bodybuilder, Yvette Bova, who several years ago was a very famous champion in that sport, is not only a porn performer but also a director with her own production company. Her specialty? Bodybuilding-related porn. How do I know this? Because I shot a pro scene for her company last year, with the male performer T.J. Cummings. (Who, by the way, is ALSO a competitor in the male bodybuilding division, using another name for his shows.)

One might also check out fitness-specific porn sites such as and to find and endless plethora of amateur and pro athletes in the bodybuilding-related world doing, Clearly, even the most deluded of their "haters" must eventually realize that this has caused these people no "harm" to their athletic interests, whether pro or amateur.

See a trend here?

So, what effect have the misogynist fools who keep threatening to "expose" me had?

None. Zip. Zilch. Nada. The facts are that both my and Steve's families already know about our adult work; that since we are self-employed we cannot be fired; that most folks in the sport don't care about my lifestyle and that those that do care don't matter because they are outnumbered by those who either like what I do or could care less; that there is no rule or regulation against ANY form of sexuality in the sport; and that it's a not a religious-based organization in any way, shape or form. All the would-be "harm" and "damage" they wish to create has only manifested itself in the world of actual reality as even more photo shoot opportunities with more pro photographers than usual, even more fans and even more site members. Not exactly in line with their stated goals…but then again I'm sure that's a recurring theme in their small, pathetic, spiteful lives. Once again they have mistaken their virulent, misguided hatred of someone or some thing and confused it with the feelings and beliefs of others; once again that has failed them and, in this case, actually backfired. Although spending inordinate amounts of their time at porn sites looking for virtues which they don't even believe in themselves is not exactly a logical or constructive use of their time, I will defend to the death their, uh, "right" to waste their own time if that's what happens to blow their skirts up....especially when I benefit from it! Just sayin'. ;-)

Here's a perfect example. One exceptionally delusional he-man woman-hater decided he and his cronies on the forums were going to  (and I quote) "destroy" my chances at winning the Vitrix Model Search Contest, which I am currently competing in under my Paige McFarland alter ego. His "thinking", as it were, is that he'd surely "ruin all chances" of me doing well because I am, in his words, a "goddamn motherfucking crack-smoking skank-ass porn star bitch". (Try hard not to laugh as much as I did when I first read that.)

Just one problem with this clown's "master plan" and that is...Vitrix is a male sexual performance enhancement product. Specifically, it works as a natural, herbal testosterone booster for increased libido and more stamina in bed. As such, not only the product itself but quite literally all advertising for and marketing of it, therefore, is overtly sexual in nature. Ergo the company is not looking for vestal virgins wearing sack cloth to promote it while flagellating themselves for having impure thoughts; they're looking for liberated, openly sexual women. And who's more openly sexual than an adult performer? Even one who is, ahem, a "goddamn motherfucking crack-smoking skank-ass porn star bitch" like me. :-)

The result of all the single-minded hard work and dedication these dweebs have put into that particular "project"? Immediately helping me to jump almost instantaneously from somewhere around 13th place all the way up to 3rd place within 48 hours, and my current standing (as of today) of 2nd place. Thanks to this guy's plan to "ruin" me, not only do I have the votes of guys and gals who were already fans of my adult work, but I now have a LOT more new fans from the modeling world and fitness who did not (yet) know that I am also known as Janet Mason.

But wait, there's more! :-) I have also been contacted by a higher-than-normal amount of fitness photographers offering paid modeling gigs since these wrongheaded geniuses put their "master plan of destruction" into action. So thanks, my friends…I appreciate all the hard PR work you have (inadvertently) done on my behalf, and I would appreciate it if you not stop all means, keep the momentum you started going, full force! ;-)

I guess the only thing I haven't covered is where I got the name Paige McFarland from. According to some "experts" on various forums, Paige McFarland is my real name and Janet Mason is my stage name. Still other "experts" know for a "fact" that the exact opposite is true. The truth is that Paige McFarland is a name Steve and I made up out of thin air in less than 5 minutes of brainstorming once I decided to use a legal/registered stage name for modeling and fitness competitions. (People can even write checks out to me as Paige McFarland.) A tame and less conspiratorial story than those of the "experts", perhaps...but nevertheless, a true one.

OK, I think that pretty much covers everything. Whew! Thanks, as always, for the continued support of you, my fans (as well as the unintentional support of my haters), and I'll see you online!


P.S. Oh yes, don't forget to vote for me at the Vitrix Model Search Contest! You'll find 65 photos of me there so far, with another one added daily, and you can vote once ever 24 hours. The winner gets a $2500 prize, an all-expenses-paid trip to Las Vegas to shoot with a famous photographer, and the opportunity to represent Vitrix to the public as a spokesmodel. That sounds like fun to me...and I'm currently in second place, so every vote counts!

(Addendum: I won the May contest! As such I won $2500 in cash, an all-expenses-paid trip to Las Vegas to shoot with a renowned fitness photographer (who is well aware that I am Janet Mason)and the chance to compete in the 2011 Overall Contest in January/February of 2012!)


Anonymous said...

Looking fabulous as always, regardless of what name you're using, Janet!

Anonymous said...

I am a huge fan of Janet and Paige. I don't get people when they try and "Expose" people for some odd reason. Maybe they are so insecure and jealous that they can't flaunt what God gave them that they have to try and hate on some one else. If the haters haven't paid attention then they would have seen long ago on the Bodybuilding message board where fans of Paige are saying that it's really Janet Mason. Then they post pictures of Janet and Paige and yes they are the same. Big deal. Those posters don't see to mind who Paige really is either. Janet really puts herself out there and doesn't hide the fact of who she is or what she does. I'm an extremely happy Janet and Paige fan. I've been a member of Janet Exposed for years and years and I hope she keeps pumping out new stuff for her site forever. I will also be following Paige for as long as she wishes to compete.

Kim said...

Such an articulate, reasoned and thorough treatise . . . bravo!

Funny, but when we began viewing (and voting for) your recent fitness pics, we naturally assumed most of the above. It's sad, regrettable that such vitriol exists out there, but sadly not all too surprising. Repression does quite a number on us if we let it.

As web performers ourselves, we admire your tactful and healthy approach to your interests. Of course, we're much more beneath the radar than you, but we can certainly empathize with (and applaud) your insistence on self-definition.

Best of luck,

Leslie and Marc

Anonymous said...

I just voted for you Janet!

What a great blog entry! Your thoughts go far beyond expressing your opinion(s), they are actually a guidepost for living your life.
Follow your dreams; commit your time and effort to making your life better; don't let those who want to drag you down succeed in their efforts; and much more!

There are not many people who have the courage to live their lives on their own terms. You and Steve have that courage. Most of us live our lives in ways society conforms us to live.

Critics might scoff and say that sucking on a Big Black Cock is not courageous living and that it's the act of a slut (or crack whore, as has been said). But my point is you live life how you choose to and you don't force this stuff in our face. People who are interested in your lifestyle can find it on the internet and those who have no interest in it will never come across it.

You are not on the streets screaming and chanting and promoting this lifestyle. Your blog comments show you have a vary healthy respect for other's beliefs and you don't shove your beliefs in their face.

There truly is more to you than just being a Black Cock Whore, LOL!

Danny said...

My first reaction is to say to hell with the fucktards who think they are going to "bring you down", Janet. But then, as you've said, they actually seem to be helping you despite their petty, hateful intentions.

As long as you and Steve are happy, that's all that matters. I for one don't hang out on sites that I don't like and I can't imagine what kind of idiot does. I happen to love your site and blog, so I'm behind you 100%, Janet. You too, way Janet could be herself without a husband who understands her. You guys rock, in my book!

jvkswm said...

Most of us realise that this aspect of the adult realms pure fantasy, even sites such as Ruth Blackwell's and barbie Cummings are fictitious portrayals ofinteracial breeding. We know it's just make believe, as are all the mise en scene in porn, it's just meant to stimulate the imagination. Btw: you appear to be in great shape, good luck in your competitions.

jvkswm said...

Most of us realise that this aspect of the adult realms pure fantasy, even sites such as Ruth Blackwell's and barbie Cummings are fictitious portrayals ofinteracial breeding. We know it's just make believe, as are all the mise en scene in porn, it's just meant to stimulate the imagination. Btw: you appear to be in great shape, good luck in your competitions.

Anonymous said...

Quote frankly I'm surprised. That you think we your fans wouldn't help you get to number 1. Good luck with the contest. I'm sure you will WIN!

Anonymous said...

Hi, Janet,

Just a note to say "BRAVO" for your excellent blog post. It is wonderful to see that a "Beauty with Brains" can achieve success and happiness, and find joy in life, despite the jealous and hateful.

There was a fitting acronym on Twitter several days ago which is HATERS = "Having Anger Towards Everyone Reaching Success." It is very good that you are insightful, and that you can accept it philosophically that these "haters" are something that "come with the territory" of Success; but at the same time, haters are not winners, and in the end, they are even more frustrated by their efforts to bring down the successful.

And you know, Janet, this applies not only to professional success, but to personal success, too. You and Steve have a very successful marriage, and in a country with a 50% divorce rate, a successful marriage is quite an accomplishment. And the jealousy is even more compounded by the fact that for miserable people, nothing is more maddening than to see someone who is truly happy.

And regarding the rampant hypocrisy in our culture, Janet, I am sure that you have seen it all, from every angle, over, under, sideways and down. There was an interesting "collision" of viewpoints at the AVN Entertainment Expo in Las Vegas this January. You know how groups like the "XXXChurch" and "Hookers for Jesus" have a habit of showing up at porn conventions to show people the error of their ways? They were one aisle away from one of your co-stars, Mark Wood, and his beloved Francesca Le. I thought it was very classy of Mark that he did not choose to argue with the proselytizers. Rather, he summed up his viewpoint by saying "everyone has to find their own way." What works for someone does not necessarily work for someone else. Mark Wood and Francesca Le are a lot like you and Steve (my apologies if I am sounding too familiar with you and Steve, whom I have not met in person--but I do feel that you can know people "by their fruits."). Like you and Steve, Mark and Francesca have a very successful and lasting personal relationship. And they have the utmost respect for, and genuine fondness and admiration for, each other.

And regarding success, Janet, I was tickled to see that you won the Miss Booble Contest the month after being "nipped" at the wire by Sara Jay. As you may recall, I campaigned for you on every site that I could, and I even got into a bit of trouble on the TER (The Erotic Review) website for being a bit "overly zealous." Apparently they have some limits about how frequently something can be posted, so I fell into the category of people whose posts have to be "monitored." But it was worth it, Janet, and I had visions of a big smile on your sweet face when you received news of winning Miss Booble.

One final compliment to you, Janet. As you well know, you are a "knockout" and a "head turner" and a winner of beauty contests and fitness competitions. But the reason that I have been a fan of yours for so many years is not merely your intense physical beauty. It is because you have that special quality of inner loveliness that makes a woman truly beautiful.

All the best of luck to you in your future endeavors!

Always your fan...

Anonymous said...

Hi Janet,

I had no idea you were getting so much grief. I have enjoyed your films for years and saw a healthy, well-rounded “normal” woman enjoying what my wife and I have enjoyed in the swinging world. There is an honesty and naturalness to your films that we love. Thanks for the blog and I have to believe the vast majority of your fans are like us and don’t think twice about that stuff.

Keep doing the great work that you love. When the time comes to retire we can still enjoy your work. Someday I hope we meet.

Anonymous said...

Hi Steve & Janet,

Read your blog. Very interesting reading, and well put. Trouble is I don't suppose the dumbwits who dislike what you do will bother to read it, and even if they do [or can], they probably won't understand your point of view. Unfortunately these morons do tend to get more than their fair share of coverage in the media, and, as the self appointed spokesman for their God [I don't subscribe to the any of the Abramhamic religions] they undoubtedly believe their cause is just, just like the late unlamented Mr Bin Laden. Still I'm sure their God will reserve a place in whatever passes for Hell in their religous outlook. Personally I believe in the Wiccan philosophy of do what you will, so long as you hurt no-one else, as this will rebound on you threefold.

Keep up the good work.

Anonymous said...

Awesome post....;-)

MstrHole said...

Well said. Unfortunately, the haters and the delusional are not interested in facts or reason -- they are trapped inside their hateful little world and the only messages they can receive come from sources that reinforce their world view. Very sad.

Kudos to you for maintaining your beautiful body the way YOU want it. Thanks for all the great entertainment you've provided over the years.

Unknown said...

Hi Janet,

We're a 27 and 28 year old couple from Portugal.
Needless to say we're fans off pro work and follow your blog.
First of all congratulations on this post. Although you shouldn't have to defend yourself.

Beeing a couple for a few years now we share a great deal of sexuality in our relationship, our feeling are deep but so is our open spirit. W enjoy our adventures and pleases us to see each other with other people.

Regardless, we have other aspects to our life, jbs, other members of family and friends. One interest should be the absolute definition of yourself. It's very respect worthy that you pursued your goals and placed yourself first in your priorities. The fact that you use an alias in your contests isn't even worth commenting.

Thank you for all your inspiration

Mafalda and Eduardo

Vincent Wolff said...

Written very well....good for you and Steve!

Mike said...

Hi a fan from way back of the foot-tease days, and you look terrific still. I still love you in those gold high heels my lady.

Anonymous said...

Janet... you're an amazing multi-tasker with her priorities straight. Best of luck in the competitions and definitely rooting for you.

I don't think you owe the haters the time of day. From this post forward I hope they move on, relax, and realize there are more important things to worry about than their current obsessions.

Option said...


You're a gorgeous woman and it's a shame there are those who delude themselves into thinking they can "deviously" foil your plans. Like you said I guess they're simply just giving you free PR, suckers.

As a guy who is warming up to the whole hotwife lifestyle (I'm a single guy so I guess it's easy for me :P since I desire to be a bull and maybe one day the hub of a hotwife) I TRULY appreciate the fact that you don't condemn those who have a difference opinion and do not necessarily accept and/or engage in your lifestyle. Many a times I have discovered that when you run into a swinger and you say "hey it's not my cup of tea" immediately you're labeled as "close-minded" or "backward" or deemed as someone who is not confident enough in their own sexuality that they cannot let their partner engage in intercourse with someone else. You don't foist your opinions on others and claim that hotwifing is the next best thing since sliced bread, which is awesome. Hopefully those in the swinger community can learn from your example and will not resort to insults or make derogatory remarks for those who enjoy and engage in monogamy. This is one of the biggest reasons why I am not a fan of many "cuckold" forums where some delusional cucks think that cuckolding will be the next biggest trend in couples and that it's just a matter of time where you will be cucked? That's laughable and utter idiocy. In fact I'm willing to wager you ask 100 people at random on the street about cuckolding or even hotwifing, 95 will say "WTF are you talking about?" with four saying they've remotely heard of it but haven't paid much attention to it, and one saying he/she is aware of it but they may or may not be interested in it. I am big a believer in freedom of ideas and opinions and glad to see you are as well.

You have my vote and wishes for the best of success.

Anonymous said...

Congrats Janet on being who you are and believing as well as accomplishing your goals. To me it takes courage to be as focused and as dedicated as you and your husband Steve are at what you do. To be honest you could always just be an artistic nude model and be just as successful but im glad i get to see all of you. If im jealous of anything it would be that im not Steve lol. Lucky guy. I voted for you in the contest and your fitness body rocks!! Be honest..there are times when Steve just stares at you not believing youre real right? Cause i know i would. Take care and best of luck.

David said...

I wonder of someone has ever collected data on the fucktards who apparently harass you and other ladies/couples with adult sites. I'd be curious to see if their appearance matches their stupid, hateful behavior. I bet it does. And I'm certain that these "men" have NO women in their lives other than Rosie Palm and her four sisters. How funny that the more they try to "expose" you and "hurt" you, the more you prosper. I guess these dudes are big Charlie Sheen fans, LOL.

Anonymous said...

Hi Janet,
Stay proud, you deserve it. You are second to none!

Anonymous said...

Just read your blog, and wanted to let you know, you never have to explain who or what you are. You and Steve have been favorites of mine for a long time. Steve knows he has a special lady, and I bet
the majority of your long time fans feel the same. In the sexy category, by far you are one in a million. Steve is the luckiest man alive, because you guys just live your dreams the way you want to like so many of us wish we could. I am a 59 year old male who is a successful business man and has lived a great life. Your movies and stories, have been a great source of my fantasies, in my real life. Why I wrote you , was to just say, keep up whatever work and play you two enjoy and thanks for
sharing it with us REGULAR folks out here.

Anonymous said...

I find that those who raise the biggest fuss are those who lead the most boring lives and want others to be the same way. All that matters is how you and your family feels about the life you lead AND NO ONE ELSE! If you so desire to play with Fruits and Veggies all day - who cares as long as you and your immediate family are OK with it. The biggest problem we have in society today is people caring more about how others lead their lives than how they lead their own. Janet/Paige - you are awesome - don't ever change

john said...

Hello Janet
I rarelty respond to blogts. I had to when I saw that or should say see that you are frustrated with so much negativity.
I want to tell you I appauld your courageous acts I remember the first time I saw your site I was abosolutely blown away at your incredible passion and reality. I am a huge shy fan. I used to be a member of your site. I chatted with you a few times my monicker was "luvtoplzher" I think you are bold,unbelievably confident a women who knows what she wants and I do believe you create a pfor other women to be lace as courageous and incredible as you,
I know that you have allowed me to dream bigger than my limited self because of your own "Bigger" than your critics keep on living your dream so we all can you are wonderful thank thank you/ said...

I attend a really unique marathon every year that you and your husband might consider - it's actually quite challenging - the Bataan Memorial Death March at White Sands Missile Range in southern New Mexico ( Half of it is on pavement and half is hard-packed desert trails. Half the route is a mild, but long incline. Elevation ranges 3000 to 5000 feet asl. Each 2 miles is water, gatoraide, oranges and bannanas. You can tent camp at the start location. Of the 5500 participants, about 4,000 are military and have to wear their uniforms. Many female soldiers and Marines participate.

Anonymous said...

Janet, This is an amazing photo of you! It shows that beautiful body of yours in full detail. And leaves no doubt in any man's mind the pleasures you can give during a sexual encounter! That beautiful face with those soft tempting blue eyes, that firey red hair, those beautiful perky tits with their responsive nipples, that flat tummy, that full tight ass and beautiful thieghs. It shows everything but that fine tight shaved pussy of yours, and just says,"First Prize" and only makes a man want you more. You should put this photo up in the " About me " because a picture is worth 1000 words and this one just says " Fuck me " all over it. What a beautiful women you are. I love the way your tits point out to the side, not straight out! They just ask to be sucked on, and would I ever love to eat that pussy at least for a couple of hours.

Anonymous said...

Dear Janet,

You have done nothing wrong or illegal and have every right to pursue your life as you see fit. Nobody has the right to tell you what to do!

Thanks for you videos and for sharing them with us, and keep up the excellent work!

Best to you and Steve.

alexis-scottsdale said...

First off, i would like to say that you are an amazing person. Whatever you choose to do with your life, make sure you are happy doing it. I had seen pictures of you as janet mason a few years back, then today while on the internet (i follow womens fitness) i came across a pic that looked like you. The women went by Paige Mcfarland. Long story short, i looked it up, and it was you. Reading your blog today has made me a top fan of yours! Although I hope you stay the fitness route, Im sure you will do what is best for you. I wish you the best! Oh and i will think of you as Paige Mcfarland fom now on.... But Janet Mason is nice too.

alexis-scottsdale said...

Just became a fan of yours on your facebook fitness page!

Iceman said...

I have thought you to be one of the physically most beautiful women anywhere on earth since around 1998 or 99 when I encountered your site. I can amend that to now believing you are one of the most all encompassingly beautiful women anywhere on earth.

I must admit that reading this shed light on my own idiosyncracies in that I tend to mentally pigeonhole people I have no opportunity to speak with directly. I most sincerely apologize for that. I really had no conceptual idea that you had such evocative prose within that lovely head. Moreover, prior to reading this, I was wholly unaware that any other individual not ensconced within the ivory towers of academia had the wherewithal to use phraseology such as this:

"vestal virgins wearing sack cloth to promote it while flagellating themselves for having impure thoughts"

The resultant imagery conjured by that particular turn of phrase was simply hysterical to me for reasons I should hope are obivous. So refreshing there are no suitable adjectives to describe it.

I say it to you regularly and never have I meant it more than now...Steve is the luckiest man on Planet Earth. Should he ever forget that...remind him there are MANY of us who'd trade places with him in a NANOSECOND.

You are a true treasure Milady. Never stop being you.


@dcross68 (since you know me by no other name i'm aware of)

William Jeffries said...

What kind of useless douchebags would do such things? Why would ANYONE with a life keep coming back to a site or blog of someone who makes them unhappy? Fuck those pieces of human shit. They just resent your well-deserved popularity. No one ever attacks "nobodies. I think it's fucking great that you won the May contest and you have my full support (votes) in the overall one, Janet. Mine AND my wife's. We're huge fans and always will be!

Anonymous said...

The thing I've liked most about your "Janet" videos is that you appear to be a beautiful woman who enjoys everything you do. There is absolutely nothing "skanky" about you. I can get skanky acting women on a million sites!
You look like the woman/girl next door who we men love to believe would "Rock us Silly"! Yet you still act so ladylike as you blow us away acting out our taboo fantasies.
I am one fan who can't wait to see your next video!
Thanks, Janet!

Anonymous said...

top draw janet,who gives a hoot about these sad f..cks