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Monday, April 5, 2010

Fan Meetings in Atlanta and Ft. Lauderdale/Miami!



Breaking news, guys...I just announced my first "fan meetings" for 2010!

Steve and I will be making trips to Atlanta (in April) and to the Ft. Lauderdale/Miami area (in June), where I will be setting aside time to meet with fans who are interested in either:

1. Being in a photo or video shoot for my site with me, and/or
2. Worshiping my feet in a Private Foot Worship Session.

Obviously the second option will appeal to my foot fetish fans only...but there are tons of you!

Anyway...for the full scoop on the exact dates for each trip, etc., please see the Travel page of either of my sites - Janet Mason Exposed or Janet Mason's Foot Tease.

Hope to see some of you "live" in person soon! :-)

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Where we meet guys...and other couples like us!


Hi guys & gals, this is going to be a very brief blog entry, but also a useful one for some of you.

Steve and I are constantly asked by other couples, single men and even quite a few liberated single women where we meet the studs that I play with, where we meet other couples who are into the same lifestyle, and what, if any, sites we recommend for dipping one's toes into the lifestyle. Well, as it turns out, the answer is the same site for all three questions...The Lifestyle Lounge.



There are many, many lifestyle contact sites out there such as Adult Friend Finder (AFF) and Swingers Date Club (SDC) but we, like most people, quickly found that they are almost always plagued with a preponderance of fakes, losers and general time-waster types in comparison to a smaller number of "real" folks. We've tried these and other sites to no avail, and never stayed on as members for more than 30 days or so. On the other hand, we've been paying members of The Lifestyle Lounge for over 4 years straight, with no lapses. Now that says something about our experiences there! Sure, every now and then we get contacted by a poser, but it happens a lot less than at any other site we've ever tried over the past 15 years. Plus, it is very "single male friendly" in comparison to most other so-called "swinger" or "lifestyle" sites we've ever encountered, and the quality of the single guys is way, way above average.

So there you have it, guys and gals...we welcome you to check it out for yourselves, if you are curious. They have a 30-day free trial so it is risk-free. If you do happen to check it out, be sure to stop by our profile and say hello...our profile name is STEVEANDJANET...imagine that!

Until next time!

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com

Friday, March 19, 2010

Steve Speaks: Why We Do What We Do, The Way We Do It (Part 1)

Hello all, and welcome to my first "topical" post.

One question which Janet and I have received from many people over the years is why we do what we do...by which they usually mean why Janet plays with other men but I do not play with other women.

There are several answers to this question. This is a very broad topic, though, so be forewarned that my answers today will be very general and quick, literally coming off the top of my head, and certainly not complete in any sense of the word.

Before we begin, it needs to be said that Janet and I have a very active "normal" sex life together and always have. To us, this so-called "lifestyle" is just something extra that we do whenever the mood strikes us. Variety is the spice of life, as they say...and this just happens to be the kind of variety we enjoy in our personal sex life. This lifestyle does not define us as people but rather is just one of many common interests that we share. In a sense, a tryst with someone else in our bed is not unlike going out for a really nice meal at a fancy restaurant, enjoying a bottle of truly fine wine, and then having a desert afterward. A true hedonistic feast of the senses. Not something you'd do every day, or it would not be special anymore...but also not something you'd want to just only once a year, on the other hand, because you simply enjoy it so much.

That being said, the first answer is that it is not exclusively true that I don't "ever" play with other women. I do, but very rarely...and that is by choice. (Mine, not Janet's.) Members of Janet's site have seen proof of me with other women in video clips from several years ago in which she had her first-ever bisexual experience with the lovely mature icon Roni from Roni's Paradise . That night, after the ladies had their fun while Roni's husband, Lucky, and I watched and filmed and took photos, they started playing with Lucky and me, each wife with her own husband. Within minutes Roni and Janet started giving me a double blowjob while I filmed it...and then Janet started giving Lucky a blowjob...and soon Lucky and I were each enjoying the oral pleasures of each other's wife. So it does happen, but the fact is that it's a rare woman who turns me on the way Janet does. I've been with quite a few women in my life but no one "does it" for me like Janet, and that attraction actually grows with time. Taking into account the fact that we've been a couple for over two decades now, that's really saying something. It's common knowledge that most men lose physical interest in their partners over time, so I consider myself to be quite lucky that I find my wife more attractive over time. Janet also considers herself to be lucky knowing that, unlike most women, she does not have to worry about me "wandering" like so many husbands do.

Another reason that Janet is my almost-exclusive partner while she plays freely with others is that we have both found this arrangement simply works best for us because it is much easier for us as a couple to "click" with just one other party than it is with two parties. Any couple who has had a "swinging" experience knows what I mean here...too often either the other couple's husband is not your wife's type even though you find his wife attractive, or the other guy's wife is not your type even though your wife finds her husband to be attractive, or one of them is clearly not into one of you two. That leaves only two choices: either walk away, or someone has to "take one for the team" and have sex with someone they are really not into just so his or her partner can enjoy themselves...and neither Janet nor I have ever been the type to take one for the team. As such, we ended up walking away from so many couples that we soon found we preferred meeting with single men or women, with very few and rare exceptions.

So...what do I get out of it if Janet does 99% of the playing with others while I remain almost totally monogamous? Well, quite a bit, actually, and here are some (not all) of the reasons why I enjoy it:

1. I like to see Janet having sex with other people because I am a very visually-oriented person and somewhat voyeuristic in nature. Most guys are, which is why they (no matter what they may tell you, ladies) watch porn. What's better than watching porn? Watching real life sex, of course. And what's even better than watching strangers have sex? Watching the most beautiful woman in the world have sex, of course! And yes, I do consider Janet, my wife of over 20 years, to be the most beautiful woman in the world. Sure, I'm biased, but that doesn't change the allure of watching such a magnificent woman get off.

What's that, you say? Why don't I just "look at" Janet while I have sex with her myself in order to appease my voyeuristic side? Well, I do, of course (who has sex with their eyes closed?), but it's not the same and that should be rather obvious as there are visual aspects of sex that a participant can never see, which is one of the primary reasons people watch porn to begin with. (Not to sound cocky, but watching porn because of a lack of a partner to have actual sex with has never, ever been a reason for me.) If you're right in the middle of the playing field, so to speak, you can't see the whole game. Also, my own intense physical pleasure when having sex with Janet (who is a truly amazing, giving and talented lover) makes it difficult to appreciate every single nuance of her body and to see her own personal enjoyment right at that moment, and there is nothing - I repeat, nothing - that turns me on more than seeing my wife in the throes of pleasure.

2. Janet is very much an exhibitionist by nature and enjoys both being looked at and admired while nude or scantily clad. She also has a particular kink for being watched while having sex - not just by me but by others, too...especially strangers - hence the birth of her web site, DVDs and video clips 12 years ago. In other words, we're on the exact same page...neither of us is the "leader" or is pushing the other into something he or she is not genuinely into, hence no "problems" arise...only mutual pleasure.

3. It makes Janet feel even more beautiful and sexy than ever. Let's face it, guys, making a woman - any woman, no matter so she is - feel beautiful and sexy isn't always so easy after years of marriage. You may tell her that she's beautiful every single day and mean it...but, if you're like me, you're biased and she knows it. What absolutely, positively convinces her that she's beautiful and sexy is attractive strangers showing obvious physical attraction to her and chomping at the bit to fuck her brains out. Then she knows that not just me but other men, too, find her beautiful and sexy, which does great things for both her self esteem and her libido. Short version? She ends up feeling sexy and desirable a lot more often, which is something any man should want for his wife...and a by-product of that feeling of desirability is that she wants sex more often, which is a bonus for her husband.

4. There are some things one guy simply can not do by himself. I'm a very considerate lover and I always want my partners to have the most intense, powerful orgasms they can achieve, as many times as they can achieve them. But what if it turns out that what really gets your lady's motor running is the idea of one guy going down on her while another guy sucks her nipples? Or the fantasy of sucking on a cock while getting fucked at the same time? Or to have a group of men caressing and massaging her body from head to toe while she has sex with one of them after another? Clearly one man alone simply can not do these things. What if she truly loves sex for its own sake, is multi-orgasmic and and can easily outlast any one single male partner in bed, no matter who he is? If your wife is such a woman, as Janet is, then the only way to really rock her world is to bring in another man. (Or two or three or...)

Not every man is confident enough or comfortable doing so, but I am. This allows me to give Janet sexual experiences that she could otherwise never have. I am never jealous as I know that I am Number One in her life...a fact that is clear not only to me but to anyone who knows us (and we've met many fans over the years) that Janet clearly adores me as much as I adore her. After all, it's not like she "dates" men or has ever cheated on me (clearly, she has no reason to do so)...this is something we do as a couple at all times, and only when the mood strikes. And if my sexuality were not so oriented toward "giving" more than it is to "taking", Janet would equally enjoy sharing me with other women, which I've already addressed earlier.

In this light, jealousy is a weakness. If you are jealous of your wife having good sex, where does it end? Do you key they guy next door's Jaguar? Do you slander and wish ill will upon anyone who has something you don't, or who achieves something you haven't? Personally, it makes me happy to see my wife happy. It’s a natural reaction and one of the reasons we are still happily married after more than 20 years together, whereas quite literally 100% of the folks we know personally who oppose our lifestyle are either divorced (sometimes more than once), stuck in miserable, dead-end relationships or repeatedly find themselves alone and lonely, seemingly unable to find a partner who suits them. Worse yet, some of them cheated on their spouses or significant others prior to the dissolution of their marriage or relationship, or were victims of a cheating partner themselves. (And they are going to tell us how to live? We think not.)

Obviously I have only scratched the surface here and this post will, in turn, lead to still more questions...some of them totally valid and others simply stupid. I will attempt to address them all - both the valid and the stupid - in Part 2 of this entry, to be posted as soon as I find the time. Until then...

Steve

Friday, February 26, 2010

New Amateur DVD Release! Big Cock Chronicles, Vol. 6: "Mann Meat In The Morning"

I know, I know...I've been "quiet" lately on the blog and site. Sorry, guys and gals, but Steve and I have been very, very busy with our "real world" life now that we've returned to strictly amateur status. But things are looking up now and you'll be hearing a lot more form us soon!

In keeping with that, it's been almost 4 months since I released a new amateur-style DVD on my site so I think this one, entitled "Big Cock Chronicles, Vol. 6: Mann Meat In The Morning", will thrill both new fans and old fans alike!

Richard Mann - he of legendary-size cock, balls and sexual stamina - flew out to visit Steve and I for a entire weekend of hot, steamy sex, most of which wecaptured on video or photos for posterity. Richard and I fucked like animals for 3 1/2 straight hours that Friday night after he landed at the airport...and Steve caught the action in a long series of photos (which are coming soon to the members area of my site). The next morning, as Steve and I were having our morning coffee and discussing the previous night's fun, Richard woke up and came down to join us...only to have us ending up dropping our bathrobes and fucking like animals again, right in the kitchen, while Steve rolled tape...and that is what you'll find on this new DVD.

That evening we fucked yet again, right in front of the fireplace and by candlelight...and that hot action is coming up for next month's DVD release.

Then on Sunday morning we fucked again, with Steve joining in...so, sadly, there are no photos or video from that morning.

Finally, with only 30 minutes to go before taking Richard back to the airport to catch his flight, Richard was still horny and asked me to give him one of my famous handjobs for a last-minute quickie...which, of course, I did, milking another massive load of cum from his gigantic black balls, and which Steve also caught on tape. Wow...talk about a sex-drenched weekend!

Check out the Store at my site for 33 sample stills and a free 2-minute preview clip. This one is destined to be another classic!

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com

Friday, January 29, 2010

Steve Speaks!

Yep...that Steve. Steve Mason. Janet's husband. Also known (to our fans, at least) as "The Luckiest Bastard in the World". (I won't go into some of the other names I've been called by those who don't like what we do...not because I'm afraid of being offensive but merely because neither I nor Janet really care.)

Welcome to my first-ever post here. As Janet has promised, I am finally going to start contributing to her blog on a recurring basis. Not only do we both feel that hearing from the two of us will present to Janet's fans a more balanced, realistic view of who we are and what we do but it has also been a longstanding request from many of you, albeit one I've firmly resisted until now. (Needless to say, those of you who aren't interested in hearing from me can, and should, simply move on to one of Janet's posts.)

As most of you know, Janet and I have been a couple for over 20 years now. That's a long time by any standard...in particular, much longer than the large majority of folks we personally know who consider our sexual lifestyle to be "wrong" have made it in their own (and, uh, "right") marriages and certainly long enough that even the most willfully ignorant of souls would be forced to admit we're in a serious, committed relationship...even if it's one which doesn't match their own personal view of what that entails.

As such, there is no Janet without Steve...and, likewise, there is no Steve without Janet. That goes for both the web site as well as our personal lives. Everything we do, we do as a team. So why not the blog?

This first post isn't intended to address any particular "topic". It's merely an introductory post to say hello to those who've not yet heard from me (believe it or not, after nearly 12 years online I get a lot of my own personal fan mail from fans of our sites and DVDs) and to let you know that I will soon be making future posts on a variety of subjects as they apply to the lifestyle Janet and I lead, our beliefs about it and anything else related to it and the web sites and video work we produce. Feel free to email any serious requests you may have for posts based on the "husband's perspective"...but be sure that you've read the FAQ page of Janet Exposed prior to writing (as I won't repeat here what's already been thoroughly addressed there) and, of course, understand that any hostile, facetious, willfully ignorant or otherwise childish questions or statements will be ignored without exception.

That's it for this post, then, I suppose. Until next time!

Steve Mason

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Webcam Show Today!

I will be hosting my weekly, free 1-hour web cam show for my site members today at 1:00 PM Eastern/10:00 AM Pacific. See you there, guys & gals! After the free show, I will be available for private, one-on-one cam shows through Camz.com for about an hour or two. (You do not need to be a member of my sites for private shows, but you must purchase chips from Camz.com.)