Where has Janet been?

I know, I know...it seems like I've been "gone" for some time. But really, I've just been very busy with my private life...and, starting this coming week, I will be officially "back"! Back to regular site updates, back to regular blog entries, back to shooting new content (both for my site as well as very select, limited pro work) and back to regular tweeting on Twitter. I promise!

So, where do I begin? Some time ago I had posted on how doing so much pro video work at once really wasn't my "thing" back when we left Los Angeles to head back East. But, aside from that, the primary catalyst for us moving all the way back across country was the fact that Mother Nature did a real number on a home we own there soon after our renters moved out. I won't get into the details, but it required some serious renovations...and it was a new, gorgeous house! Packing up and moving coast-to-coast again within a year, with a family, to come "home" to a disaster was quite an ordeal. It was all very taxing on Steve and I, especially since it was holiday time. It seemed for a time there that our world had turned upside-down.

I did not deal with the stress very well. I started making "comfort food" as well as the usual traditional holiday foods, which we normally don't eat. It was an escape for Steve and I to sit down at home at the end of a long day of juggling things and have a glass of wine, sometimes 2 or 3...I won't lie. While living in L.A. we both stopped working out so we would have energy for shooting pro scenes as well as amateur scenes for my site and, on top of that, our eating habits had turned bad. Get up, have coffee, head to set, eat nothing and drink very little water so I wasn't "full" or "bloated" for the sex portion, 6-8 hours later head home totally exhausted not to mention starving and order food in from our favorite little Italian restaurant and yes, drink wine with dinner. It was the complete opposite of the very fit and healthy lifestyle we've lived for years.

With that new bad habit for starters, then the stress of our return move, pound after pound piled on. Don't get me wrong....in retrospect I wasn't really that overweight...in fact, I was not even clinically overweight...just overweight and out of shape by my own standards. I felt disgusted with myself and quite frankly, a bit depressed. So, eventually growing tired of my own "self-pity party", I focused on the one thing I could control again...my health & fitness. With that in mind, Steve and I started hitting the gym hard again in January...just like we always used to do. By April we were going twice a day, 6 days a week...cardio in the morning and weights at night, all while eating completely "clean".

The result? I've lost 25 pounds since I started digging myself out of my hole in January and am actually in the best shape I've ever been in....I've got my "sexy" back! (Steve, too, is totally ripped and looks 1/2 his age again.) And during that time we repaired the damage to our beautiful home in full...so no more stress in that regard, either.

In all honesty, when I don't feel good about myself, I just do NOT feel sexy...and having a site is all about being sexy. I didn't want to meet with other guys or gals, either on or off-camera. While I was doing the bare minimum of my cam shows (all the while getting nasty-grams from people about my weight... which didn't help) and answering e-mail and processing DVD orders, we both pulled away, emotionally-speaking, from the site. We've been online for 12 years now, sharing the most intimate part our lives with everyone and every once in a while, real life just happens. It's hard sharing your downs when people expect you to be happy, sweet and sexy 24/7. For awhile there I didn't even want to put on makeup or do my hair let alone get in front of a camera...and, likewise, Steve didn't feel like picking up a camera or even playing off-camera.

We LOVE having a web site...but at times it can be overwhelming. It really is just Steve and I that do this, alone. We are not some big corporate site with a staff (as we know some sites are). Real world catastrophes such as what happened to our house back east happen. All these things add up.

We have some new trips planned to shoot with fans after the great response to our recent Ft. Lauderdale trip, and I'm recharged and ready to romp again. Ditto for Steve! So, in short, thank you to all of you who have hung in there with me and had faith in me. I hate to let anyone down! I wouldn't be here with out you and truly appreciate your support over the years. I had to pull myself up by my proverbial boot straps and get back in the game of life. While this might be more information than any of you wanted to know, (I usually don't get so personal)I felt I owed it to you.

Meanwhile, I wanted to give you a sneak preview of a new photo layout I'll be posting at Janet Exposed this week, taken from two professional glamour modeling shoots just this past week. I hope you like them...I'm in the best shape of my life, feeling sexier than ever and am ready to roll with a vengeance!

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com

Fan Meetings in Daytona Beach!

Steve and I will be in Daytona Beach, FL for our "real world" work from May 27-28 and, while we are there, I will be setting aside time to meet with fans who are interested in either:

1. Fan Meetings. That's right, meet and hang out with me one-on-one, all to yourself and get a personalized/autographed 8x10 photo of me...no photo or video shoot required!

2. Worshiping my feet in a Private Foot Worship Session.

Obviously the second option will appeal to my foot fetish fans only...but there are tons of you!

As always, please see the Travel page of either of my sites - Janet Mason Exposed or Janet Mason's Foot Tease - for more info.

Hope to see some of you "live" in person soon! :-)

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com

Cock Worship Part 2: The Art of the Blow Job

As a follow up to my post on hand jobs, I thought I'd talk today about another serious love of mine..blow jobs! I just can't help but succumb to my oral fixations when a beautifully erect cock is bobbing in my face. I love to grab a cock by the base, pull it toward my mouth, open wide and stretch my mouth around it. Using my tongue on the underside, feeling that "V" and cupping my tongue there so it "suction cups" to it. Then tracing the ridge of the swollen head with the tip of my tongue. I explore every inch, up and down the shaft. And then there are the balls...I love balls! First I drink in their musky, male scent and then start swirling my tongue all over them, sometimes playfully grasping the skin of the man's sac gently in my teeth and tugging ever-so-lightly. By that point I'm totally lost in my "cock worship" mode. I'm always encouraged as a man reacts to my oral skills...feeling him tense up with pleasure, letting out a moan and then surrendering control to me...

After tending to the guy's balls (which most women shy away from...or at least don't pay enough attention to) I trace my tongue back up their now throbbing member. I linger at that little "V" again for a moment to feel the swelling of the head. It's like their cock has a life of its own now, twitching and pulsing uncontrollably. Then, I look up at them with my big blue eyes, open my mouth wide and wrap my soft lips and warm wet mouth around the head. I love watching the reaction on their face after having built up the intensity first. It's a pretty widely known fact that the bigger the cock, the better for me, so when I can wrap both my hands from the base up and still have plenty of cock to suck on, I'm a girl in her glory. I grab on firmly and start slowly sucking the shaft into my mouth. I the start a little twist of my head as I suck hard on the way up as if stroking it with my mouth. Now, I'm lost in my aching lust to pleasure the guy and tease him to a spurting orgasm in my mouth. Not forgetting the balls, I reach down with one hand to tug on them while gripping the base of the shaft and sucking in big, juicy wet gulps. I can feel the tension increasing, reading the moans, heavy breathing and writhing of the man until his explosive release hits the back of my throat. That warm, salty burst of semen spurting on my tongue (which, after the build-up of of one of my blow jobs is usually several good, long spurts) drives me insane with pure animal lust. I try to hold it in my mouth to look up and show him...and then swallow. Mmmm, tasty rewards for my efforts!

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com

Fan Meetings in Atlanta and Ft. Lauderdale!

Breaking news, guys...I just announced my first "fan meetings" for 2010!

Steve and I will be making trips to Atlanta (in April) and Ft. Lauderdale (in June), where I will be setting aside time to meet with fans who are interested in either:

1. Being in a photo or video shoot for my site with me, and/or
2. Worshiping my feet in a Private Foot Worship Session.

Obviously the second option will appeal to my foot fetish fans only...but there are tons of you!

Anyway...for the full scoop on the exact dates for each trip, etc., please see the Travel page of either of my sites - Janet Mason Exposed or Janet Mason's Foot Tease.

Hope to see some of you "live" in person soon! :-)

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com

Where we meet guys...and other couples like us!

Hi guys & gals, this is going to be a very brief blog entry, but also a useful one for some of you.

Steve and I are constantly asked by other couples, single men and even quite a few liberated single women where we meet the studs that I play with, where we meet other couples who are into the same lifestyle, and what, if any, sites we recommend for dipping one's toes into the lifestyle. Well, as it turns out, the answer is the same site for all three questions...The Lifestyle Lounge.



There are many, many lifestyle contact sites out there such as Adult Friend Finder (AFF) and Swingers Date Club (SDC) but we, like most people, quickly found that they are almost always plagued with a preponderance of fakes, losers and general time-waster types in comparison to a smaller number of "real" folks. We've tried these and other sites to no avail, and never stayed on as members for more than 30 days or so. On the other hand, we've been paying members of The Lifestyle Lounge for over 4 years straight, with no lapses. Now that says something about our experiences there! Sure, every now and then we get contacted by a poser, but it happens a lot less than at any other site we've ever tried over the past 15 years. Plus, it is very "single male friendly" in comparison to most other so-called "swinger" or "lifestyle" sites we've ever encountered, and the quality of the single guys is way, way above average.

So there you have it, guys and gals...we welcome you to check it out for yourselves, if you are curious. They have a 30-day free trial so it is risk-free. If you do happen to check it out, be sure to stop by our profile and say hello...our profile name is STEVEANDJANET...imagine that!

Until next time!

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com

Steve Speaks: Why We Do What We Do, The Way We Do It (Part 1)

Hello all, and welcome to my first "topical" post.

One question which Janet and I have received from many people over the years is why we do what we do...by which they usually mean why Janet plays with other men but I do not play with other women.

There are several answers to this question. This is a very broad topic, though, so be forewarned that my answers today will be very general and quick, literally coming off the top of my head, and certainly not complete in any sense of the word.

Before we begin, it needs to be said that Janet and I have a very active "normal" sex life together and always have. To us, this so-called "lifestyle" is just something extra that we do whenever the mood strikes us. Variety is the spice of life, as they say...and this just happens to be the kind of variety we enjoy in our personal sex life. This lifestyle does not define us as people but rather is just one of many common interests that we share. In a sense, a tryst with someone else in our bed is not unlike going out for a really nice meal at a fancy restaurant, enjoying a bottle of truly fine wine, and then having a desert afterward. A true hedonistic feast of the senses. Not something you'd do every day, or it would not be special anymore...but also not something you'd want to just only once a year, on the other hand, because you simply enjoy it so much.

That being said, the first answer is that it is not exclusively true that I don't "ever" play with other women. I do, but very rarely...and that is by choice. (Mine, not Janet's.) Members of Janet's site have seen proof of me with other women in video clips from several years ago in which she had her first-ever bisexual experience with the lovely mature icon Roni from Roni's Paradise . That night, after the ladies had their fun while Roni's husband, Lucky, and I watched and filmed and took photos, they started playing with Lucky and me, each wife with her own husband. Within minutes Roni and Janet started giving me a double blowjob while I filmed it...and then Janet started giving Lucky a blowjob...and soon Lucky and I were each enjoying the oral pleasures of each other's wife. So it does happen, but the fact is that it's a rare woman who turns me on the way Janet does. I've been with quite a few women in my life but no one "does it" for me like Janet, and that attraction actually grows with time. Taking into account the fact that we've been a couple for over two decades now, that's really saying something. It's common knowledge that most men lose physical interest in their partners over time, so I consider myself to be quite lucky that I find my wife more attractive over time. Janet also considers herself to be lucky knowing that, unlike most women, she does not have to worry about me "wandering" like so many husbands do.

Another reason that Janet is my almost-exclusive partner while she plays freely with others is that we have both found this arrangement simply works best for us because it is much easier for us as a couple to "click" with just one other party than it is with two parties. Any couple who has had a "swinging" experience knows what I mean here...too often either the other couple's husband is not your wife's type even though you find his wife attractive, or the other guy's wife is not your type even though your wife finds her husband to be attractive, or one of them is clearly not into one of you two. That leaves only two choices: either walk away, or someone has to "take one for the team" and have sex with someone they are really not into just so his or her partner can enjoy themselves...and neither Janet nor I have ever been the type to take one for the team. As such, we ended up walking away from so many couples that we soon found we preferred meeting with single men or women, with very few and rare exceptions.

So...what do I get out of it if Janet does 99% of the playing with others while I remain almost totally monogamous? Well, quite a bit, actually, and here are some (not all) of the reasons why I enjoy it:

1. I like to see Janet having sex with other people because I am a very visually-oriented person and somewhat voyeuristic in nature. Most guys are, which is why they (no matter what they may tell you, ladies) watch porn. What's better than watching porn? Watching real life sex, of course. And what's even better than watching strangers have sex? Watching the most beautiful woman in the world have sex, of course! And yes, I do consider Janet, my wife of over 20 years, to be the most beautiful woman in the world. Sure, I'm biased, but that doesn't change the allure of watching such a magnificent woman get off.

What's that, you say? Why don't I just "look at" Janet while I have sex with her myself in order to appease my voyeuristic side? Well, I do, of course (who has sex with their eyes closed?), but it's not the same and that should be rather obvious as there are visual aspects of sex that a participant can never see, which is one of the primary reasons people watch porn to begin with. (Not to sound cocky, but watching porn because of a lack of a partner to have actual sex with has never, ever been a reason for me.) If you're right in the middle of the playing field, so to speak, you can't see the whole game. Also, my own intense physical pleasure when having sex with Janet (who is a truly amazing, giving and talented lover) makes it difficult to appreciate every single nuance of her body and to see her own personal enjoyment right at that moment, and there is nothing - I repeat, nothing - that turns me on more than seeing my wife in the throes of pleasure.

2. Janet is very much an exhibitionist by nature and enjoys both being looked at and admired while nude or scantily clad. She also has a particular kink for being watched while having sex - not just by me but by others, too...especially strangers - hence the birth of her web site, DVDs and video clips 12 years ago. In other words, we're on the exact same page...neither of us is the "leader" or is pushing the other into something he or she is not genuinely into, hence no "problems" arise...only mutual pleasure.

3. It makes Janet feel even more beautiful and sexy than ever. Let's face it, guys, making a woman - any woman, no matter so she is - feel beautiful and sexy isn't always so easy after years of marriage. You may tell her that she's beautiful every single day and mean it...but, if you're like me, you're biased and she knows it. What absolutely, positively convinces her that she's beautiful and sexy is attractive strangers showing obvious physical attraction to her and chomping at the bit to fuck her brains out. Then she knows that not just me but other men, too, find her beautiful and sexy, which does great things for both her self esteem and her libido. Short version? She ends up feeling sexy and desirable a lot more often, which is something any man should want for his wife...and a by-product of that feeling of desirability is that she wants sex more often, which is a bonus for her husband.

4. There are some things one guy simply can not do by himself. I'm a very considerate lover and I always want my partners to have the most intense, powerful orgasms they can achieve, as many times as they can achieve them. But what if it turns out that what really gets your lady's motor running is the idea of one guy going down on her while another guy sucks her nipples? Or the fantasy of sucking on a cock while getting fucked at the same time? Or to have a group of men caressing and massaging her body from head to toe while she has sex with one of them after another? Clearly one man alone simply can not do these things. What if she truly loves sex for its own sake, is multi-orgasmic and and can easily outlast any one single male partner in bed, no matter who he is? If your wife is such a woman, as Janet is, then the only way to really rock her world is to bring in another man. (Or two or three or...)

Not every man is confident enough or comfortable doing so, but I am. This allows me to give Janet sexual experiences that she could otherwise never have. I am never jealous as I know that I am Number One in her life...a fact that is clear not only to me but to anyone who knows us (and we've met many fans over the years) that Janet clearly adores me as much as I adore her. After all, it's not like she "dates" men or has ever cheated on me (clearly, she has no reason to do so)...this is something we do as a couple at all times, and only when the mood strikes. And if my sexuality were not so oriented toward "giving" more than it is to "taking", Janet would equally enjoy sharing me with other women, which I've already addressed earlier.

In this light, jealousy is a weakness. If you are jealous of your wife having good sex, where does it end? Do you key they guy next door's Jaguar? Do you slander and wish ill will upon anyone who has something you don't, or who achieves something you haven't? Personally, it makes me happy to see my wife happy. It’s a natural reaction and one of the reasons we are still happily married after more than 20 years together, whereas quite literally 100% of the folks we know personally who oppose our lifestyle are either divorced (sometimes more than once), stuck in miserable, dead-end relationships or repeatedly find themselves alone and lonely, seemingly unable to find a partner who suits them. Worse yet, some of them cheated on their spouses or significant others prior to the dissolution of their marriage or relationship, or were victims of a cheating partner themselves. (And they are going to tell us how to live? We think not.)

Obviously I have only scratched the surface here and this post will, in turn, lead to still more questions...some of them totally valid and others simply stupid. I will attempt to address them all - both the valid and the stupid - in Part 2 of this entry, to be posted as soon as I find the time. Until then...

Steve

New Amateur DVD Release! Big Cock Chronicles, Vol. 6: "Mann Meat In The Morning"

I know, I know...I've been "quiet" lately on the blog and site. Sorry, guys and gals, but Steve and I have been very, very busy with our "real world" life now that we've returned to strictly amateur status. But things are looking up now and you'll be hearing a lot more form us soon!

In keeping with that, it's been almost 4 months since I released a new amateur-style DVD on my site so I think this one, entitled "Big Cock Chronicles, Vol. 6: Mann Meat In The Morning", will thrill both new fans and old fans alike!

Richard Mann - he of legendary-size cock, balls and sexual stamina - flew out to visit Steve and I for a entire weekend of hot, steamy sex, most of which wecaptured on video or photos for posterity. Richard and I fucked like animals for 3 1/2 straight hours that Friday night after he landed at the airport...and Steve caught the action in a long series of photos (which are coming soon to the members area of my site). The next morning, as Steve and I were having our morning coffee and discussing the previous night's fun, Richard woke up and came down to join us...only to have us ending up dropping our bathrobes and fucking like animals again, right in the kitchen, while Steve rolled tape...and that is what you'll find on this new DVD.

That evening we fucked yet again, right in front of the fireplace and by candlelight...and that hot action is coming up for next month's DVD release.

Then on Sunday morning we fucked again, with Steve joining in...so, sadly, there are no photos or video from that morning.

Finally, with only 30 minutes to go before taking Richard back to the airport to catch his flight, Richard was still horny and asked me to give him one of my famous handjobs for a last-minute quickie...which, of course, I did, milking another massive load of cum from his gigantic black balls, and which Steve also caught on tape. Wow...talk about a sex-drenched weekend!

Check out the Store at my site for 33 sample stills and a free 2-minute preview clip. This one is destined to be another classic!

Janet
www.janet-exposed.com
www.foot-tease.com